Guy Friends?
"Guy Friends"
One thing that I will never understand is girls who have alot of, if not only, guy friends. They say "I don't like girls, I don't get along with them, they are cat like. I like guys better. Most of my friends are guys".
Today on my way home from school I was listening to Tom Leykis, and he had a topic going about girls who have guy friends. This one caller called in and said that the girl he was dating had too many guy friends. He would see them flirting, and long hugs, and such. Another caller said he had the same thing, and the girls always assure them that "hes just a friend", and caught her cheating. Tom's advice was to "dump that bytch", which I happen to agree with.
I am not insinuating that to have guy friends means you will cheat necessarily. Of course it depends on the girl. However, girls with guy friends, for the most part, are sexually promiscuous or liberal. Not all the time, but for the general part, that is the trend. They like the attention from the guys they get. And girls who think guys are just their friends do not know guys.
Men and women are different. As such the thing that binds them is attraction. Guys and girls cannot, ever, EVER be friends, without their being some ulterior motive. The girl might not know, and truly believe the guy is her friend, but the guy, being a guy, thinks differently. Men and women think differently, is my point. A girl may assure her boyfriend that "he's just a friend", but the boyfriend knows better, because he is a guy, and knows how men think. There are exceptions to the rule. Men and women can be friends, if there is absolutely no sexual attraction, or the guy is a clueless nerd, or gay. Otherwise, most guys will be friends with you until the point where they realize they cannot get some, or that you get a boyfriend. Then they will disappear and not be as close to you.
I am not talking about acquaintances, but friends. Friends who you spend alot of time with. You go out together, share things together, spend time together. And I am saying that guys and girls cannot be friends aside from those minor exceptions, and that no guy should ever date a girl who has nothing but guy friends, or a guy best friend, or any such thing. The same applies to the man of course. He should not have any friends that are girls that he spends time with, or shares anything with. That is the whole purpose of why you have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Otherwise, you shouldn't ever be in a relationship with a boyfriend, if you have all those guyfriends which you want to keep on your keychain. -- By anonymouse.
Any thoughts?
http://sandgetsinmyeyes.blogspot.com/2007/04/why-girls-need-guy-friends.html
Interesting...
Frankly, in my opinion, some guy friends are just meant to be friend.. nothing else, but obviously like the article mentioned above, guys think differently! hahaha..
Oh well, guys are still guys.. Can't stop.. all the guys would love to have a bonus stage between the guy and girl friendship.. Trust me.. hahaa..
What is bonus stage in friendship? Watch "Friends".. Alrighty, it means a stage whereby you can get together for just one night and no strings attached.. And do whatever.. you know... Next day, move on.. I am sure many urging for that! hahaha ;)
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